Sunday, April 12, 2009

Gay friends, fruit baskets and crotch water?

Max S and I have this gay friend who everyone can tell is gay, but he can%26#039;t bring himself to admit it. He likes this guy who is straight but our friend can%26#039;t get it into his little (which is actually really big) head that his crush isn%26#039;t gay. Our friend also has a little bit of a problem with his bodily stench, which turns off all of the people around him. Now anyway, how should we break it to our friend that he should stop liking this guy and denying the fact that his crush doesn%26#039;t have the same sexual preference as him, and that our friend needs to be comfortable with who he is?


By the way, the fruit baskets and crotch water are irrelevant to this question, they are just inside jokes between our friend and us.

Gay friends, fruit baskets and crotch water?
thanks for the heads up on the inside joke -whatever it is, I%26#039;m sure it%26#039;s hilarious.





Your friend does need to be comfy in his own skin. Gay, straight, or otherwise. Most of my friends that I%26#039;ve known that are gay have a hard time coming to grips with that reality, but always do in their own time. HelI my brother in law%26#039;s father was married (to a woman) and had two kids before he came out. It rather sucked for his family and wife, but the point is, if he really is gay, let him have it in his own time.





I%26#039;d try to help your friend address the hygene issue before anything else. Perhaps sit down with him one on one so he does not feel %26#039;ganged up on%26#039; and tell him that you want to help him as a friend and that includes being truthful even when it hurts. Suggest showering daily (a lot of guys NEED it) and perhaps even suggesting an antibacterial bodywash (Dial rocks!) as well as ask about deodorant and suggest trying a few different brands if the one he%26#039;s using is keeping him dry, but not taking away the smell. (I have only a couple brands myself that actually keep me dry and deodorized at the same time) I love that my fiance uses Axe-it%26#039;s deodorant AND body spray....AND it smells sexy!! :) Try not to push the issue or embarrass him too much (cuz frankly, he will probably be when it%26#039;s brought up) and remind him that you enjoy his friendship regardless of his smell and you%26#039;re just trying to help him not change him...well anything more than a few habits anyway. lol





Best of luck to you and your friends!
Reply:Alright fruit basket and crotch water! First you need to tell your friend he need to be fresh not riped! That way he can actually get a man. Let him know that mess with a straight man can really cause him his life!
Reply:Our Gay Friend is also very sexual, and a lot of people get repulsed by this
Reply:just tell him that the other guy is not a rump ranger and has no intrest in his smelly azz



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